Maybe you worked with LOA before and it worked once, but it’s not working anymore. Maybe you are not getting the results you were expecting, and you want to know where you are going wrong. Or maybe you just want to learn more about LOA and you want to do it RIGHT when you first start. Wherever you are in your manifestation journey this guide will help you avoid the mistakes most people make and put you in the flow of abundance. Once you know the mistakes you need to avoid, you are now accelerating your results to manifest.
Here’s why you need to go through guide before you begin to work with the Law of Attraction:
I’ve seen people totally SMASH life by using the Law of Attraction. It’s like they were magic and could conjure up whatever they wanted life to give them. But on the flipside… I’ve seen people try and try and try. But they got nothing. Crickets. None of their desires showed up for them. So, I hear you asking, what’s the difference? Why does the Law of Attraction work for some people and not for others? Is it just because some people are luckier? Thank goodness, the answer is NO! The Universe doesn’t favor one set of people over another. It’s not about favor at all, in fact. It’s about RESPONSE. How YOU address the Universe depends on how it will respond to you. That’s what the Law of Attraction is all about at its foundation! The problem is, some people use LOA but don’t get it quite right. They make mistakes that seem small but actually STOP the Universe from creating the greatness they want to see, from bringing them the blessings they so desperately want. They end up frustrated, disillusioned, and angry.
I don’t want that for you.
In this eBook, I share with you the top 10 mistakes people make when using the Law of Attraction. Read it carefully, so that you won’t fall into the same traps. You CAN manifest the life of your dreams with the Law of Attraction. Just make sure to move all the blocks in your way!
How I created more time for myself as an ambitious, goal-driven woman
If you’re anything like me, you wish there were 30 hours in a day. How is there time to get everything done in just 24?! Just a short while ago, I was perpetually stressed. My to-do list never had all the checks by it at the end of the day. I was running at superspeed, trying to get everything done, and my head and neck felt tense with stress.
But then I found an amazing hack to turn it all around. More on that later. First, here’s a breakdown of what my day looked like. See if you relate: I’ve had a morning ritual for a long time now, to help me center and ground, and get focused on my goals, so that came first. A calm oasis at the beginning of each day, which I so badly needed. After that, it was full on, go go go, getting my kids (3.5 and 2) ready for day-care. I battled the traffic and got home by 9. There was just about time for a cup of tea before I started with my tasks for the day:
Client calls Meetings Admin ad infinitum… Then I looked at the clock. How on EARTH can it be almost 4pm ALREADY?!
I rushed to go pick my kids up. My cranky, cranky kids. At that time of day, they’re not at their best. Hungry, testy, and needing all the attention in the world.
I cooked dinner while they whined and moaned. Then they didn’t eat half of what I’d lovingly prepared, even though they very definitely did like that type of food yesterday.
We do our bedtime routine. Then I’m back on the laptop, working again.
Now, I’m not a single mom… But you may have noticed there was absolutely ZERO ‘Me & Husband’ time in the schedule.
Well, pretty much the only time we got to spend together was me complaining, “I HAVE NO TIME TO WORK! I have so much on my plate. I have so many ideas. I want to expand my business in this direction, that direction, but I DON’T HAVE TIME…”
The extent of our communication was me saying to him… Do more. Do more. Do more. Do more childcare. Do more chores. Do fricking MORE, darn it!
Yeah, so you can imagine just how fulfilling our relationship was at that point. One day, amidst all the stress and bickering, I thought…
There is something wrong going on here. Something’s not right.
Quickly I realized I was focusing on the LACK. I had a lack mindset in saying, “I don’t have time.” I kept saying that to myself, to my husband, to other people, over and over, and it made me more and more stressed. I felt constantly rushed. I wondered if my mindset was contributing to the stress and pressure I felt.
BOOM! Mind blown.
I knew I had to change things. It was then I had a slightly revolutionary idea. I took the decision to CREATE MORE TIME.
Yes. You read that right. And no. This is not a science fiction story. I went back to what I do best – mindset work – and got experimenting. Here’s how…
The next morning, I got up as usual and did my morning ritual. (Psst, if you haven’t yet joined my 7 day challenge for morning ritual, click here to jump on. You won’t regret it.) But this time, when it came to the bit on gratitude I do, I held my head up high, and confidently said, “I’m so grateful for having all the time I need to do my work. THANK YOU, Universe, for giving me this opportunity to do the work that I LOVE.”
Then when it came to my affirmations part, I said, “I have all the time to do what I want to do. Time expands for me.”
Now, don’t get me wrong. All of this was really cool. But I was still a teeny tiny bit sceptical it could work. I mean, create time?! Anyone who knows me or works with me knows I am a fully paid up member of the Manifestation club, but this? Maybe I’d gone a little too far this time.
But, boy…Let me tell you…
I had NO idea the power of gratitude could be this powerful. I noticed things start to change IMMEDIATELY For one, I felt calm and relaxed. This enabled me to achieve more in the same amount of time. When I looked up at the clock, it wasn’t nearly 4pm. It was only 11.30am. It literally felt like I had stretched out time.
Not only that. My relationship became warm and satisfying again. We were spending quality time, chatting and laughing, not complaining. Everything around me changed.Just with a simple act of gratitude… I’ve been working with gratitude for so long. But this… this was something else. I learned gratitude has so much power. So, so, so much, that we can’t even comprehend it.
We absolutely have the power to create what we want. All we need to do is create habits for success. A morning ritual that incorporates gratitude and affirmations is one of them.
The key, though, is consistency. We have to be persistent in our practices. Some days I don’t feel like doing my morning routine. But I do it anyway, because I know it’s a long term investment in my own success. When motivation fails, I know I need to be disciplined.
I’ve loved telling you this about my life because it illustrates my work so clearly…
First, we need to first identify the patterns that we have that are holding us back.
My pattern was thinking, saying and believing, “I don’t have enough time.”
Then we need to turn that belief around.
“I have plenty of time to do everything I need to do,” was the way I did this.
Next, we need to install in this new belief as ‘positive programming’ that give us different results.
“I’m so grateful for having all the time I need to do my work. THANK YOU, Universe, for giving me this opportunity to do the work that I LOVE.”
“I have all the time to do what I want to do. Time expands for me.”And it worked so incredibly beautifully. I go through the same with my clients seeking transformation and more success in their lives.So if there’s one thing I want you to take away from this today, it’s… the power of gratitude!
…set intentions …release past baggage …invite in new possibilities?
Well, now you do.
Even in the past when I wasn’t conscious about New Moon, I always found myself doing this ritual I’m about to share with you. Then, when I began to explore manifesting, New Moon energy was one of the first things I discovered. I was so surprised to find out there was a connection I never even knew about!
Ever since my discovery, over two years ago now, I’ve been perfecting my New Moon ritual for maximum manifesting power! Do you have any goals and plans you really want to achieve and make a reality? Great! You can use my manifesting ritual for your own life. Try it for yourself and see what magic you can work in your life.
Step 1: Get Clear
The clearer and specific you are, the faster you will manifest. Many people don’t know that this is the most important part of manifesting. Even if you got all the other parts wrong, if you are clear about exactly what you want, you are half way there!
So, think about what is that you want to experience. Remove all the limitations and allow your mind to dream really, really big. Then ask yourself, in your heart of hearts, “What do I really want?” Maybe it’s money, or to move location, or a specific opportunity. There are no right or wrong answers. The only thing is that it has to be right for you.
When I wanted to manifest money, I used the abundance check to write a specific amount and date by when I need that money.
Next, make 3 wishes (Remember wishes are different from setting intentions)
What is that you want to experience now?
May be more money in your bank account?
May be a new house?
Or Attract the perfect mate.
Write them down on a piece of paper. (Normally, it is said to burn the wishes after you make it. It’s up to you to do whatever you are called to)
Once, you make your wishes it’s time to set some intentions that will support your goals for the next month.
Why a month? Well, because you’re manifesting for this lunar cycle – that is, until the New Moon comes around again next month.
So, get to thinking…
What do I want to accomplish in this lunar cycle?
If you have a short goal to achieve in the short term then great! You’re all set.
If you have a bigger goal, break it down into smaller steps. Which steps can be taken this month?
Make sure the intentions you set for the month are not outrageous or completely unbelievable to your subconscious mind. For example, “I’ll earn a million dollars this month,” is not feasible (for most of us)!
So it shouldn’t be totally out there… instead, it should be pushing your limits just enough.
Go on, take a moment to write down your intentions for this lunar cycle. Try to think of 3 to 5 goals.
Step 3: Let it go
In order to invite something new in your life, you need to make room for it.
That’s just a law of the universe.
So how do we work with this law when manifesting? Well, we realize that to accomplish the goals we set in Step 2, we’re going to have to let some things go. What are you willing to let go so you can bring in new energies?
If your intention is ‘I have the intention of reading 1 book this month’, then you could say ‘I’m willing to watch TV everyday only for an hour instead of 3 hours and I will read a book in that time.’
If your intention is to set boundaries with your work/life balance, then you could say, ‘I will not check my work email once I’m home. I’ll also set some specific times that I absolutely cannot bring work into.’
If your intention is to move from anxiety into a state of peace, then you could say, ‘I’m willing to trust the universe and let go of the need to know how and when things manifest.’
Go ahead and think of the things you can let go in order to create space for what you really want!
Step 4: Write Affirmations
If you know anything about me, you’ll know that I love affirmations.
They’re great tools to implant your goals directly into your subconscious, making it much more likely that your dreams will manifest into reality. Why? Because our subconscious is tapped into the wider power of the Universe. It’s a part of us that’s more powerful than we can even imagine!
New Moon is one of the best times to say affirmations, because of the ‘new’ energy in the air all around us. Create your affirmations and you’re well on the way to seeing your goals manifest right before your eyes!
Did you know you can amplify your intentions to make your manifesting stronger? You can intensify your vibration and frequency so that the Universe can ‘hear’ what you’re asking for loud and clear! I am all about manifesting quickly and effectively. To do that, my favorite method is to layer up vibrations.
Here’s 4 of my favorite ways to get your signal out into the Universe, totally supercharged:
Creating and activating a crystal grid on a New Moon is my absolute powerhouse tool for manifestation.
Personally, I’m deeply connected to archangel Metatron so I mostly choose a Metatron grid template for my crystal grids. (You may notice me wearing a Metatron pendant in every video and photo, and my business logo is Metatron.)
For the New Moon, my go-to stones are Moonstone, Selenite and Labradorite, with clear quartz crystal points.
Candles are a beautiful addition to bring in the vibration of Sun, the creator being, Ra. You can use plain candles or dress them, and put them in different formations. Which colors will you use? It’s all up to you and what you feel comfortable with.
Oh, I love essential oils. Not only do they raise your frequency but they elevate the mood and set the ambience. Lavender and frankincense are some of my favorites.
Of course, no event, ceremony or ritual is complete for me without the power of the pyramid frequencies. Pyramids amplify the frequency by raising the vibration.
They are super powerful tools to work with while setting our intentions.
Step 6: Release attachment
The last step, the key to activating your desire, is to let go of the ‘when’ and ‘how’. We love to be in control, and know exactly how things are going to happen. But let’s be real… when has life ever worked like that?! When we are focused on control, competition and judgment, our vibration lowers, making it less likely our dreams will come true.
At this point in the manifestation process, we are already connected to the collective grid. All we need to do is just “BE” in the now, and allow the magic to happen!
Before you begin your New Moon ritual, here are some of my top tips about preparation:
You can really make this an intense ceremony or can be a quick 10-minute ritual. There is no right or wrong method here. Really go with what works for you, no guilt, no shame.
Before you start your New Moon ritual, make sure you clean the space that you are going to use physically, sweeping and dusting etc. Also allow the light and air to come in by opening the windows.
Clear the space energetically using your favorite method (e.g. smudge/hand sweep/sound tuning etc).
I also play some high vibe music prior to the ceremony to raise the frequency of the space.
Okay, now here’s a quick recap of the method, and I’ll show you my personal process that I follow for my New Moon rituals.
First, I start with the clearing and grounding
Write my wishes (3 wishes)
Release belief systems/habits that no longer serve me
Set Intentions that support my wishes. (I go crazy with colors/ pictures)
Activate Crystal Grid
(TIP: I also charge my water with new moon energies and drink it all month while doing my morning affirmations.)
End with Meditation
See how easy and powerful this is?
You can do it, too! I hope you take some tips from this and make your own New Moon ritual.
Please share your comments and tips for making this even more powerful!
We all have those days when we get clumsy…drop things… getting lost in our thoughts. We also often miss the road we have to take and struggle to get tasks accomplished. All these signs indicate that we are not grounded.
Illnesses do not come upon us out of the blue. They are developed from small daily sins against Nature. When enough sins have accumulated, illnesses will suddenly appear. ~Hippocrates
“ Grounding ” means being present .. being in the NOW .. being connected to our roots and Mother Earth. It makes us feel balanced, protected and secure.
It is the most important practice that helps us experience life by living in the moment and to become a conscious co-creator. This practice can be done anytime we feel disconnected .. unable to focus .. exhausted .. and when connecting to Higher Self.
We come into this physical three-dimensional world to experience a human life. Our energy body/etheric body is connected to Gaia by a grounding (or etheric) cord. This cord can be visualized as a pipe connected from the root (or feet) chakra going all the way into the core of the Earth, which acts as a two-way channel to send and receive energy.
We are designed to send the toxic energy into the earth, receive pure and charged energy back from Mother earth. However, due to our disconnected lives we tend to clog these pipes and thus, block the energy flow.
These blocks are the root causes of all our problems and therefore we experience exhaustion .. fatigue .. lack of abundance.. and thus, feel stuck. Hippocrates, father of medicine quoted that, “Illnesses do not come upon us out of the blue. They are developed from small daily sins against Nature. When enough sins have accumulated, illnesses will suddenly appear”. So, being grounded is very essential for healthy and happy life.
Grounding Crystals like “ Black tourmaline ”
“ Hematite ”,
“ Smokey quartz ” are my favorite crystals that can be programmed to support the intention to be grounded. “ Grounding Meditation ” is a great way to bring back balance and connect back to Mother Earth or ‘Gaia’.
Here is my favorite grounding meditation technique:
This can be done literally anywhere. In your car, before a meeting you go, in a party or you can make it as long as you want depending on your intention.
Sit comfortably on the floor or if you are sitting in a chair both feet must touch the ground. You can even just stand.
Straighten your back, close your eyes and bring your awareness to the breath. (while doing this you can even hold a crystal in your hand if you wish)
Visualize yourself as a big strong tree with strong roots.
Visualize your roots going down deep into the core of the earth.
See them going through the layers of rock, oceans, deep within Gaia and wrap around the huge iron core.
Now with your intention when you exhale send all the toxic energies, any pain, confusion from your body into the earth and when you inhale receive pure life force from mother earth.
Do this exercise for a minimum of 7 breaths. You will immediately feel the difference. You can do this anytime you feel disconnected or just to bring your awareness back to this moment when you feel scattered.
Mother Earth is the greatest healer of all. “Earthing” is the process of being in contact with Earth directly which gives a powerful experience in balancing the flow of energy and this can be achieved by walking barefoot, living in contact with Earth’s natural surface charge or meditating on the Earth’s surface.
12 Affirmations for Grounding:
My energy is centered, grounded and focused. All is well and complete in my world.
I am safe.
My needs are always met.
I am anchored and connected to Mother Earth.
I am a divine being of light, and I am safe, protected and secure.
My home is safe and secure.
I’m living in the present moment.
I love my body.
I am flexible and move through life with effortless ease.
By nourishing myself, I nourish the universe.
I stay rooted and grounded, no matter the direction or force of the wind.
References Ober, C & Chevalier, G. (2015). Grounding the human body, The Healing Benefits of Earthing
All the ancient civilizations, from the Pyramids of Giza to the towering Aztec and Mayan Pyramids of Central America have been using Pyramids for centuries.
The shape of the pyramid, which is a tetrahedron is considered as sacred geometry in the Universe. This shape is used to harness infinite source of energy as it creates a torsion field that generates high frequencies which amplify vibrational healing.
Extensive experiments have been conducted inside man-made pyramids. “Bovis” made a to-scale model of the Cheops Pyramid and placed it, like the original with the baselines aligned north-south and east-west. Inside the model, one-third of the way up, he placed a dead cat, it became mummified and thus, he concluded that the pyramid promoted rapid dehydration. Reports of this discovery attracted “Karl Drbal”, a radio engineer in Prague, who repeated similar experiments.
From then on, thousands of people had enhanced experiences when meditating beneath Pyramids, as its scientific properties focus harmonious energies while deflecting distracting ones. People have reported deeper relaxation, an enhanced sense of well-being and increased levels of awareness while meditating inside a Pyramid. They also experienced strong spiritual and psychic impressions like clarity in dreams, visions and increased memory recall. Changes in the meditator’s aura have been noted with Kirlian photography with auras becoming brighter and larger.
Experiments have shown copper to be the best metal for an open-frame meditation pyramid due to its natural electronic and bio-enhancing properties. However, pyramid structures of cardboard, wood or bamboo are also effective, if built to the same proportional dimensions as the “Great Pyramid” at Giza, in Egypt.
The sacred geometry behind a Pyramid is Nature’s gift to mankind. Other than spiritual benefits, pyramids are known to purify water, dehydrate food and flowers (thereby preserving them), promote healing of physical body from pain and injury and restore lustre to jewellery.
It is highly recommended to sit beneath a pyramid to improve one’s meditative experiences and to connect to one’s own Higher Self.
Patrick, G (2017) “Pyramid Power- The Science of Cosmic Energy.